Mastering Your Craft: Creating Impactful Change in Your Life
I wake up at 6 a.m., head downstairs, and make my tea. Then, I move into my Kundalini yoga practice. By 7 a.m., I’m journaling my thoughts, clearing my mind, and grounding myself for the day ahead.
At 8 a.m., I’m reading—diving into something inspiring or thought-provoking. By 9 a.m., I shift gears into writing and planning my content, letting the ideas flow. At 10 a.m., I tackle tasks and respond to messages—"eating my frogs" to get the hardest things out of the way.
Lunch comes around at noon, and the rest of my afternoon is dedicated to more learning and refining my plans for future content. By 6 p.m., I’m heading out for my daily walk by the lake in our neighborhood. It’s my time to listen to podcasts, music, or just lose myself in thought.
By 10 p.m., I’m in bed, book in hand, winding down the day with words that inspire or calm me.
Some family members ask why I work so much, but honestly, I don’t consider it work—it’s just who I am. What else would I be doing? I get paid $300 an hour to talk to people, share life advice, and offer new perspectives. Sometimes, it’s still wild to me that I’m paid for the wisdom I’ve gained and the way I see the world—not just for my time.
The future is now.
Driving home today after working at the café, I found myself reminiscing. I miss driving long distances. When I worked in healthcare, I’d commute an hour each way, often stuck in traffic on I-95. Ten years of that could’ve felt like wasted time, but I used it as an opportunity to grow. Podcasts and audiobooks became my companions—Rich Roll, The Diary of a CEO, Buddha at the Gas Pump, Huberman Lab. I used to say, "One day, I’ll have my own podcast. I’ll create impact, share depth, and build something meaningful."
I’ve gathered thousands of stories from patients. That time in healthcare was like a fast track to understanding life.
The future is now. I don’t work 9-5 anymore. I have time freedom, and money isn’t something I worry about.
Today, I spoke with an Army performance coach who used to be a lawyer. He said he "collected a lot of stickers and recognition," only to end up on X, just like me. I like being on X. It’s full of recovering people-pleasers and workaholics—people who once fetishized climbing the ladder but are now creating deeper meaning in the world.
I can DM any entrepreneur I’d never otherwise meet.
He asked me, "What else is missing in your life?"
It took me a while to answer.
I think I want mastery. I want to be really good at persuasion, impactful writing, and painting with words. I want to hone my creative skills, grow as a leader, and expand my community.
More than anything, I want to mentor people in a way that makes them say, "You helped me see possibility—and because of you, I took action."
But in reflecting on this, I also think of my mentors—those whose words, teachings, and presence are ingrained in me. They taught me to think differently, to rise above self-imposed limitations, and to embrace who I truly am. Their influence reminds me that I have the capacity to do the same for others.
As I move into 2025, my intention is clear: I want to create a life that inspires others to believe they can be free without burning themselves out just to feel normal. I want to be an example of what it looks like to embrace the moment, to surrender to the flow of life, and to trust that you can succeed without self-sacrifice.
This next chapter is about stepping further into my vision—a community rooted in meaning, growth, and freedom. It’s about creating impact while living a life that feels alive. I want to show others that the future we dream of is possible—and that we can build it by being fully ourselves.
The Real Problem here
We live in a society that glorifies overworking:
The Pain Point: You’re stuck in a cycle of burnout, chasing a vision of success that doesn’t align with your values.
The Cost: Your health, relationships, and creativity are taking a back seat to a never-ending grind.
The False Belief: You think freedom comes after decades of hard work, instead of realizing it can be created now.
The Goal
To shift your mindset from overworking to living intentionally and meaningfully. Freedom isn’t about doing more; it’s about doing what aligns with your values and brings you joy.
The Benefits of Shifting Your Approach
More Energy: Let go of what drains you and focus on what fuels you.
Time Freedom: Gain control over how you spend your days.
Fulfillment: Create a life where your work is a reflection of who you are—not just what you do.
Impact: Share your unique gifts in ways that inspire and transform others.
The Big Idea
Freedom and impact don’t come from grinding endlessly. They come from mastering your craft, aligning with your purpose, and surrendering to the moment.
This shift starts with embracing the idea that you don’t have to kill yourself to feel normal—or to be free.
Working Through the Confusion
When you hit those "hanging off a cliff" moments, here's what I recommend:
Journal daily about what you're feeling and clearing
Ask yourself: "Higher self, what patterns is this discomfort accommodating?"
Pay attention to where you might be giving your power away
Set firm boundaries with people who drain your energy
Speak your truth – suppressing yourself can lead to thyroid issues and energy stagnation
How to Move Forward
Here’s a step-by-step process to start shifting your life today:
Define Your Vision:
Ask yourself: What does freedom look like for me?
Journal about your ideal day—what are you doing, and how do you feel?
Let Go of What Drains You:
Identify tasks, habits, or commitments that feel misaligned.
Start saying no to things that don’t support your vision.
Master a Craft That Lights You Up:
Pick one or two skills that you want to develop deeply.
Dedicate consistent time to learning and improving them.
Trust the Process:
Focus on small, meaningful actions each day.
Celebrate your progress, no matter how small.
