Many of my clients are high achievers: CEOs, engineers, lawyers, corporate professionals, working moms, and more. We are very self-aware, with packed calendars and endless to-do lists. We set ambitious goals and strive to achieve them. However, we often struggle to balance our lives and fear setting boundaries, worried about disappointing others.
This struggle is deeply tied to the identities we've created, always feeling the need to perform and be our best. This constant drive triggers our survival instincts, but in the long run, it leads to burnout. We wait until the pain becomes acute, even when our jobs no longer align with who we are.
We have various passions and are meant to pursue many different things in our lifetime. However, society tells us that to be happy or successful, we must choose one path and stick to it, which isn’t true.
Everything that sparks passion within you is urging you to follow it. If you do, it will lead you to what you truly desire. Your challenge is to defy societal norms about happiness and success and show others a new way.
Your gift to the world is breaking us out of the boxes we live in and expanding our perspectives on what's possible.
The key is to go slow to go fast. When you create space, you bend time, think better, and generate more ideas. You become optimized.
Many successful CEOs implement systems to optimize their workflow. Hard work alone won’t make you rich; otherwise, many nurses would be wealthy. It's about taking deliberate risks and knowing the right people who can guide you.
Listen to your intuition, read the room, and understand people's behaviors and triggers. Those who aren’t grounded and don’t know themselves are easy to manipulate. You're either leading or becoming the sheep.
Ask yourself: What is enough for you? What are you trying to prove?
You might think you want an expensive car, a fancy watch, and a huge house. But what you really want is respect and admiration, and you believe expensive stuff will bring it. It almost never does, especially from the people whose respect you want most.
Extreme stress can trigger MS, seizures, strokes, heart disease, and cancer. Just because you have abs doesn’t mean you’re healthy. The highest form of self-harm is overworking and perfectionism.
I'll leave you with this: How do you plan to create more space in your life? What are the most important things to you? What does your dream life look like?
If that doesn’t include your soul-sucking 9-5 job, are you ready to escape the phantom matrix and start living your true purpose?
Book a session today.
